Ready to start dating again? 15 tips for getting back in the game after divorce. So how can you start off on the right foot when you're just beginning to dip your toes back into the dating pool?. "There are three rules of dating after divorce," says Lisa Daily, author of Stop Getting Dumped! "Don't think of yourself as damaged goods, don't torture the new. Jennifer is a single woman who recently divorced. Even though she has decided to wait a few years until her daughter is grown to reenter the dating scene, she's.